psycho proportions

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Registered: 10-09-2007
psycho proportions
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Sun, 11-04-2007 - 9:21pm

As this has come up for me in a couple of threads now, I want to ask if anybody else has had similar experiences as myself.

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Registered: 04-12-2004
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 9:51pm
I am VERY interested in what people have to say about this.
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Registered: 04-27-2006
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 7:06am

You might hate this answer .... but really, if it's a pattern with you.... YOU are the common denominator .... and I suggest a good counselor to figure out why you are attracted to these type of guys.

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Registered: 10-14-1999
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 3:30pm

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Toni

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Registered: 10-09-2007
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 5:41pm

I am not that attracted to them if they only make it up to 2 dates and I say goodbye right afterwards.

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Registered: 10-09-2007
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 5:45pm
Well my current boyfriend is not clingy or crazy at all.
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 8:10pm

Since this keeps happening to you - you need to think ab out what you're putting out there.

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Registered: 10-14-1999
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 8:49am

well, you did ask the questions...


Yes, people suggest therapy - because it works. If someone asks a similar question to yours "why do I always get teh same thing" those of us who have experienced destructive relationship patterns and used therapy as a way to get past those self defeating behaviors will offer that

Toni

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Registered: 11-09-2007
Fri, 11-09-2007 - 11:59am
Now I don't know you but my roommate had the same problem many times before as well.
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Registered: 11-10-2007
Sat, 11-10-2007 - 5:10pm

I think some guys just like freaking women out and get a sick kick out of it...so they may have played with you some...not intending to really date you...like how you and your current boyfriend are dating...but like a sick stunt.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 11-11-2007 - 11:35am
If everyone says you always attract the crazy ones you should ask yourself why.
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