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Registered: 11-01-2004
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Mon, 11-01-2004 - 1:03pm
I need some advice with a situation. Saturday I went out with some friends, one of them being a man I've known for a few months. We've been just friends. He's never done anything or said anything to indicate he was interested in something more. I had had a few too many so I crashed on the couch. He went into the kitchen to get a drink, and on his way out he stopped, leaned over and kissed me. He didn't say anything or touch me, just kissed me. Trust me, I wouldn't have objected to anything else because I do like him. But I also respect him for not taking advantage of the situation. My question is, should I bring up what happened with him, or should I let him bring it up? And what if he doesn't mention it at all?
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Registered: 07-02-2004
In reply to: dfl1221
Mon, 11-01-2004 - 1:52pm
I wouldn't bring it up. Be confident - it WILL come up again. Take some personal power by letting him figure YOU out.
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Registered: 06-30-2003
In reply to: dfl1221
Mon, 11-01-2004 - 2:12pm
Definitely, don't bring it up. Let him make another move. I kissed a male friend once when we had been drinking. One kiss, nothing more. In the light of day, nothing more came of it either.
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Registered: 11-01-2004
In reply to: dfl1221
Mon, 11-01-2004 - 5:55pm
I need to clarify here....he wasn't drinking. So it wasn't the alcohol responsible for what he did...