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| Thu, 05-06-2004 - 11:15am |
I have a question for those single women out and about playing the dating game. Of course men are welcomed to answer too.
When you are dating someone do you spend a lot of time on the phone with the individual or do you only talk to that person when only when you have plans to make? Also, does this determine the qaulity of the realtionship for you?

I may be getting involved in a LDR though...if so I will have to change my habits/views on phone calls!!!
Sheri
I think the frequency of phone calls does affect the level of commitment to a certain degree when you don't get a lot of face time with someone. Simply because if you talk to someone more, you know what's going on with them each day and in the beginning, that's a sort of bonding that is hard to duplicate by spending a few hours a week together. At the same time, I've known women who flipped out if a guy didn't call one day. That's a little extreme I think.
More important than how often you talk on the phone is knowing that you two are comfortable enough to call whenever.
Ivy
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Other people feel differently. The woman who sits next to me at work talks to her husband about 10 times a day and says "I love you" in every conversation. That's fine if it suits both people. Everyone's different. And of course, the key to a happy and satisfying relationship -- finding someone who's on the same page (about many, many things).
Hope this helps.
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Sheri