Question?

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Registered: 01-29-2004
Question?
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Mon, 10-24-2005 - 10:28pm

I've been dating this guy for a little over a month and things are going great. He's has everything I've been looking for (so far, as we all know, no on is perfect). I already met his family and he's met mine and that went well too.

One thing that drives me NUTS is when a guy says he's going to call and doesn't (unless he has a reasonable explaination). I invited him to my house last night after his plans that he already had and he said that he would call me later. I'm not upset that he didn't come over but he didn't even call to say whether or not he would. This morning he sent me an "I miss you, call me when you can" message and I left a message for him. I still haven't heard back. I know people get busy but . . . it's weird. It's happened a few times where I'll leave a message and him and he doesn't call back sometimes if he gets home late.

Instead of dwelling on this, I would like to be honest with him and ask if everything is okay. What do you think the deal is and how can I approach the subject without sounding like a b*&%^? Thanks.

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: lsept3076
Tue, 10-25-2005 - 9:38pm

As straight-forward as you can... "It's important to me that when we say we'll do something we will. Going forward, if you say you'll call, please do. I will make sure I do the same." No big to-do, no drama... ;o)


Do you have an exclusivity agreement with this guy?


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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: lsept3076
Thu, 10-27-2005 - 1:47pm

yo'ure right to be upset, people should be their word.


you are entitled to bring up not in a judgmental, angry way but in an honest way to say that you are really enjoying getting to know him but before you go much further you would like him him to know that if he says

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