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Question about "can i call you sometime?
| Mon, 06-07-2004 - 10:03am |
Hi. Long story short: Met guy in club; my friend jokingly told him, "You better treat my girl right," & he handed her his biz card (he's in the military). We danced all nite & he asked if he could "call me sometime." So I gave him numbers. I'm new to dating, after divorcing from a 10 yr marriage so I have all kinds of retarded questions...
First, what exactly does "sometime" mean? Like when he wants to "hook up?"
Second, if I don't hear from him by "X" day, should I call him, since I have his biz card?
Peace!
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| Mon, 06-07-2004 - 10:18am |
Here's some advice. Don't call him even though you have his business card. Wait for him to call YOU. He might call in a few days, or a couple of weeks. Or, not at all. There is no way to know for sure. When he calls, he should ask you out on a proper date and give you some advance notice, like call on a Tuesday for a Friday night date. If he calls and wants you to do something "at the last minute", that is rude of him and don't do it. Also, since he's a stranger to you, make sure you tell a friend when and where you are planning to go out with him. Give your friend details about him such as his name, what he looks like, etc. (I'm not trying to scare you, but dating, like everything else, can be dangerous).
| Mon, 06-07-2004 - 10:25am |
Thank you so much for the reply! I'm kind of old-fashioned...I def. want the guy to be the one to call, even though my "new milenium" gf's say I should call. But I'm going with my gut on this one! Have a great day :)
