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| Mon, 12-13-2004 - 12:11pm |
out in the dating world again, and facing my old nervousness at approaching a woman. I notice that, much as women complain, the sleazy guys who make any kind of gesture are still more well-liked just because contact is attempted. I, however, just cannot act that way. I look for some kind of "natural" opening to conversation. I suppose I could invent one, it just doesn't turn up that much though.
I'm not a guy that if you saw me in a bar you'd say "Wow". I'm trim but balding, and I look intellectual. I guess if I could not have the feeling of "being shot down" I could be more reckless. Any advice?
I'm not a guy that if you saw me in a bar you'd say "Wow". I'm trim but balding, and I look intellectual. I guess if I could not have the feeling of "being shot down" I could be more reckless. Any advice?

The advice I have for you is to be yourself!!
Yes, sleazy guys always make a move on the girl no matter who she is and may start a conversation but usually the girls walks away after she figures out what he is about. I've also had guys come a talk to me that look so scared and nervous I feel scared and freak out at the same time and walk away as well. The time I let guys talk to me is when they are themselves, not putting up an act, not acting desperate...they are just trying to make decent conversation and make me laugh :)
Just walk up to a girl you are interested and say Hi and take it from there, just be yourself and you should be fine.
GOOD LUCK!!!