Quiestioning, does it make me a villain
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| Sun, 05-23-2004 - 4:09pm |
Hello, I need an advice on how to handle the following situation.
Yesterday my loving bf had a party at his house and the conversation
with his friends went like this:"Jackie (his friend), remember
last summer we went to a wedding party and you went away and left
me there with a bunch of strangers I didn't know?" to which Jackie
replied:"Do you want me to continue with this story ? What about your
involvment with the skunk ? I will sink you..." ??? OK I thought to myself,
I will quesiton him later. This did alarm me because we started dating
exclusively last May. I was supposed to stay at his house yesterday
but I did not feel comfortable with this idea and decided to go home. I said
good-bye to the remaining friends and as I was just about to leave he asked me
what was wrong, and I said whatever Jackie said did not make me feel comfortable.
Well, he got very offended and acted like an injured party, actually,
this is a trend in our relationship, he does not like to be quesitoned or told that
he is in the wrong. So he yelled at me and I left.
Anyway, today it's 4:00 and I haven't heard a word from him. I would expect a
real man to phone with some sort of an explanation of what his firend's comment meant.
Am I wrong for questiioning him ? One fo my friends said if
I completely trusted him this woud not be happening, but it's hard to ignore that comment.
I am trying to be as reasonable as I possibly can under the circumstances.
olga.
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