Read second...after what do I do now?

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Registered: 10-26-2004
Read second...after what do I do now?
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Sun, 12-05-2004 - 5:16pm
Also I forgot to add that I act like I am not interested in him becasue I don't want to get hurt and I don't want him to realize how much I really like him. When he walked me home the night after we were together well I said "Hey, buddy give me a high five" (I know a little imature) but he grabbed me and kissed me anyway.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 12-05-2004 - 5:32pm

What do you think he is "seeing" in you behavior? To me it seems dishonest and misleading. He may have some interest in you but has decided to do little about it (or go extremely slow) based on your behavior.

When a close relative is going through major medical problems it does cause distraction at times. All this means is that he may prioritize his mom over you but it may not mean that he has limited feelings for you.

I suggest that you get true and honest with your feelings and what you want out of life. As you develop a clear picture of this, then let him know where you are at. At least then decisions can be made realistically and based on facts. Please be fair so that he can be fair in return.