Ready for sex, not sure if he is

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Ready for sex, not sure if he is
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Mon, 04-12-2004 - 11:41pm
I have been dating a guy for 2 months, we mess around all the time, but it stops there. Neither of us are virgins, and we have discussed sex itself, but not with each other. How do I go about bringing it up? I don't want to make a move on him while we are messing around and get shot down. I think that would be a mood killer. Any suggestions?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 12:05am
maybe you need to tell him, instead of your friends that you're ready. some guys are very gentlemanly about not pressuring.
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Registered: 03-29-2004
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 6:34am
mood killer ?

just give him the go signal

if he shoots u he is not a man

and dont just say do me here right now

or f*** me ...thats too slutty

whihc btw u girls refrain to use any ways ...i would love a gal one day who can be straight and direct ..probablly if i am not in mood i will surely be after the f word ..but then thats just me ....

try cressing his hands a little tighter and tease him with the tounge ...oh boy do i think dirty or what ...make sure that u rub ur body agaisnt u know where gently ..and make sure he knows it u did it on purpose ..after this if he is not doing any thing he is a doll then

btw we guys love to make girls think that they want it more than we do ...even though we want it more...just dont give the impression u r over eager ..tease him as u please

by the way i feel u stand still when he is making out ??