The real reason why women go to clubs?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
The real reason why women go to clubs?
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Mon, 07-26-2004 - 12:34am
So what is the real reason? Do women go to clubs to get picked up? Looking for the potential mate? Just to dance and have drinks?

Discuss

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2003
Mon, 07-26-2004 - 1:35am
All of the above. You can't generalise something like that because all sorts of people from all walks of life go to clubs.

For me personally, whether I have a bf or not, I go to dance. I don't go to clubs often because my social group aren't the type (they're all married with kids, and I'm the only one who's not), but when I go, there could be 50 guys around me. I don't see one of them. I go to dance and be in my own zone on the dance floor. To be honest, more often than not, if a guy comes up to me on the dance floor, it annoys me coz I can't do my own thing with someone trying to bump and grind me. LOL

I've can't recall ever picking up in a club, nor have I considered meeting a potential mate in one. I just assume a guy who's gonna try to pick me up in a club is doing so because another girl 5 minutes before, or the week before turned him down.

But that's just me.

Eve

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Mon, 07-26-2004 - 12:08pm
I go to the club with my female friends to go dance and have fun. I don't go there looking to be picked up. I hate when I get some drunk guy trying to put his arm around me! I don't get out much, since I am a single mom, so when I go out I want to have a good time with my friends. Last time I went two guys wouldn't leave my friend and I alone, even though we told them to.

If I want to meet a guy, it's not going to be at a club.

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