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| Wed, 10-13-2004 - 3:12pm |
I really need some help or answers. This is the first time I have been on here. I have been seeing a man for about four and 1/2 years. I love him very much , but due to his insistance we see other people. He says we will only screw up our friendship and relationship if we change things. After intercourse this morning, we were in the middle of a quiet moment and out of the blue he said that a gentleman that came into my place of employment , who just wanted to visit me, needs to be told by me or himself, that he can no longer come in and see me. This man is a friend only!! and only a aquaintance only. Is
the man I have the relationship with jealous? Does he really feel more for me than friendship and affection, or is this just wishfull thinking on my part and he just simply wants this other man to go away because he does not like him??? I need help!!
Bambie
the man I have the relationship with jealous? Does he really feel more for me than friendship and affection, or is this just wishfull thinking on my part and he just simply wants this other man to go away because he does not like him??? I need help!!
Bambie

Obviously, if he asked you to get rid of this other man, then he is jealous. Why don't you two either make your relationship OFFICIAL. You need to help yourself and ask this man to have some decency and not use you. Sorry to be blunt, but to stay in a casual relationship that long is absurd and only hurts the two of you!
you have to do that yourself by talking to him
thats the only guidance i can give you