REALLY need female advice...PLEASE

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2005
REALLY need female advice...PLEASE
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Tue, 12-18-2007 - 7:56pm

Hi everyone.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-1999
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 4:15pm

wow - I am hugely thankful that the people in my life showed compassion and kindness to me after my Dad died and didn't judge or criticize me because I didn't

Toni

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2005
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 4:31pm

Once again....thank you.


All three of you (toni, Starbuck, Snafu) make a lot of sense to me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-1999
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 4:53pm

yes - not knowing is a killer - but we really don't know about a lot of things - we just think we do.

Toni

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2006
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 6:09pm

Apparently she that type of person who is overwhelmed by her grief.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2006
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 6:22pm

The loss of a beloved family member can be devastating and all-consuming.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2006
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 6:38pm

Chris I understand what you are going through.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2004
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 7:33pm

<< he was also grieving also during that time and was able to be in a relationship.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-1999
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 8:01pm
thanks - I am doing very well. I am happy and looking to the future though I still wish I could talk to my Dad, in a way I still do. Its different but life goes on. I know I'll see him again. :)

Toni

Toni

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2004
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 8:12pm

<< If a week or two goes by and I'm still getting no feedback I do believe I'll take it as though I should move on, but I hope it doesn't come to that. >>


Well there, I think you answered your own question (in regard to how long to wait).

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 12:23pm

I think it makes sense by setting a time frame for you to move on.