really need some serious love advice

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Registered: 10-02-2007
really need some serious love advice
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Tue, 10-02-2007 - 7:31pm

Okay board Here is my situation/dilema


Me and this guy have known each other for the past 8 years. 8 years ago we met thru my best frined - his cousin and became friends but shortly we actually dated briefly which was great!!We totally hit it off and had great physical chemistry as well as became good friends.. He then moved away and shortly after (which was roughly 4 months or do)we stopped talking/communicating once he moved. Because of mutal frineds we saw each other during the holidays and special occasion weekends for the next few years, but that was it. Still friends though.


Then I moved onto another relationship for about 2 years., I then moved away several months after this relationship had ended and ran its course. So at this point we have both pretty much moved on with our lives (in good ways)and lived in different states.


well recently this

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 8:54pm
Since you know each other so well I would suggest you ask him outright if he thinks he might be interested in rekindling something with you.
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Registered: 10-02-2007
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 9:12pm

Thanks Snafu2006 for your advice. I will take it into consideration.


Have a good one

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Registered: 08-23-2006
Fri, 10-05-2007 - 3:41pm

hi, i would give him more time and then just call, as snafu suggested.

i dont know why at least on one end its always too complicated. somehow me personally i always get frustrated and just get out. but if u feel that it can be ur 'the one', if as u say the spark is still there - then hell i would call! but not in obsessive way, not as desperate for relationship clingy girl. it never works. but as an old friend who is more than a friend.

BIG good luck to u!

hope everything will turn out even better than you hope for!
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Registered: 10-02-2007
Fri, 10-05-2007 - 4:03pm

hey pucky2002..