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| Wed, 06-21-2006 - 6:59pm |
Hi,
I started talking to this guy about 5 days back ... intitally exchanging 2 emails and now 3 phone calls. The first time we talked on phone, he said he has a friend who is visiting from India and he is going to meet her. He came back home late. It didn't bother me as we have never met, it was the first phone conversation and there's nothing wrong in meeting a friend especially when visiting from another country.
Today, we talked for the 3rd time and he said that he is going to India in a month or two and then he will be going to India during the month of December. Further, he said he likes to visit India as it's a lot of fun there.
I asked him what are the top 5 things he would do for fun. he said he liked to go out to parties with loud music and hang out with cool people. He enjoys doing everything at the spur of the moment. The first thing he would do would be to go to India.
Isn't this ridiculous / weird? Do you think this guy is another one of those who likes to make new friends (girls as friends) and then use them and is out to just look for fun? The wildest thought that came to my mind was him having an affair with this she-friend who is visiting from India ...
Any thoughts ... am I reading too much into all this?
Thanks.

Well, I normally hear that guys tell you about them in the very initial stages. So, I'm wondering if he's trying to tell me anything and in case there's a red flag to watch out for. I'm just being cautious since I never seem to have a relationship.
In the end of today's conversation, he said "you can call me whenever" - did he mean I can call him whenever I feel comfortable?