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regain trust cut through wall od indepen
| Thu, 09-23-2004 - 2:13pm |
seeing 57 year old woman who has been widowed for 21 years no long term relationship very self reliant on self. Known her 4 months enjoy her company totally like her
Ex woman friend of mine went to her place of business and to house to find out whom i was seeing in July (like stalking). The 2 met at my house totally unexpected the first one very jealous.
The second woman is re-elvaluating our relationship because i did not tell her in July about this. I felt I can protect her and the other has since stopped on my advice. The The wall of hers was coming down with me and now it is back up.
If we do continue with the relationship how do I regain and rebuild the trust that was lost by not telling her. She is right I should have. I have of course apoligized to her but otherwise the relationship is excellant.
I do not want to lose her
Ex woman friend of mine went to her place of business and to house to find out whom i was seeing in July (like stalking). The 2 met at my house totally unexpected the first one very jealous.
The second woman is re-elvaluating our relationship because i did not tell her in July about this. I felt I can protect her and the other has since stopped on my advice. The The wall of hers was coming down with me and now it is back up.
If we do continue with the relationship how do I regain and rebuild the trust that was lost by not telling her. She is right I should have. I have of course apoligized to her but otherwise the relationship is excellant.
I do not want to lose her

In addition to apologizing, have you told HER that you acknowledge that you should have told her and that you were wrong? That would go a long way towards disposing me to give you another chance...but of course your life would also have to be an open book from here on out.
Sheri
Is negating a relationship over this 1 factor worth it. I was wrong i admitted it and I want to continue seeing her and regaining that trust so the wall around her can come down and maybe we can establish a better relationship. No cheating or anything like that just a error in my judgement
Also, agreeing with her that you should have told her is NOT the same as saying "I'm sorry, I was wrong".
Sheri
to her. I am being forthright with her beside saying" I am sorry" She has not spoken to me since Monday and is going to her best friend to discuss if the relationship should continue. I have to abide by that and feel it can go either way. Don't know what else to do. Its in her ballpark now. I know as i have said we enjoy each other and i am a
important part of her life up until I told of the problem. i felt i had to be honest about it and not keep it from her. But yes I did lie then and have learned i hope a valuable lesson from it.