rejected but he seemed to like me so muc
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| Mon, 04-16-2007 - 2:23am |
Hey Everyone!
ok so I live in this big house with twenty roommates (yes I'm in college) and one of my male roommates has this cute friend. He always got nervose around me and then at a party about a month ago I finally got up the nerve to dance with him and he immediatly kissed me. I was trying to get over some other guy and was completetly drunk so I slept with him. He told me he hated one night stands and we started sms-ing and sleeping together. After a while he started to get really weird around me when he was with my roommate. My roommate was keeping an eye on me as he called it and was always asking if I had kissed another guy if I had gone out. Then last week when the cute guy was here again (with my roommate and other friends) he ignored me completly and walked ou of the community room to sit in a room al by himself.. I was having fun with his friends when he came back (stoned) and he acted nervose again! Other people said he might just be shy, so I texted him a few times after that again and he responded friendly, but not in a romantic way. Then when i texted him if he wanted to come over late at night he didn't respond at all. The next day he was at my house again and acted really stupid! He made jokes to me ("Hey thnx for waking me up last night! I'm not mad, just dissapointed!") and ignored me the rest of the night.
The day after that he came over AGAIN and just talked really loud all the time "Hey!! How are you doin?" then walking away before I could answer. When he went out he said "Well bye then!" so I texted him if we we're gonna go on a date or if he was just a friend of my roommate again. He texted back "I'm having so much fun here right now! I guess its better then if I'm the friend of your roommate again. Kiss" I texted back "ok fine! :)"
After that he's never been to our house again, so I guess he's ignoring me..
I'm heartbroken because he seemed to be so sweet before! He as hugging and kissing me in front of his friends and sometimes looked at me as if he really liked me. He also told me he didn't want to jump into a relationship, but that he really enjoyed being with me..
I'm sooo confused!! Where did it go wrong and what the hell should I do?
kisses!

It seems that you and the cute guy had a casual sexual relationship. The very nature of those relationships lend themselves to a temporary status. He probably did like you very much. Do you suspect that the friend of this guy, your roommate, could have possibly interfered with the relationship? Maybe your roommate likes you. I got this based on what you posted here: "After a while he started to get really weird around me when he was with my roommate. My roommate was keeping an eye on me as he called it and was always asking if I had kissed another guy if I had gone out."
I am sure you are disappointed in this relationship ending. You might want to consider dating outside of the social circle of your house roommates and/or their friends.