relationship choices cuz bf moving
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| Sat, 04-24-2004 - 11:51pm |
We have four months until he moves away. I find myself loving him more and more as each month passes by. I know the hurt I'll experience when he leaves and we break up will intensify over the next four months (versus if he left now). Because of that increased pain and the fact that we're breaking up anyway, many people have adviced me to break up with him now. I am a little unsure about this because why would I intentionally put myself in a bad state when I am so happy with him now just so I can hurt less in the future?
The second option that I have heard some people advice is to stay together, be in a long distance relationship, and allow each other to date other people. As good as staying together sounds, I don't believe in being in an open relationship. It's hard for me to trust our relationship when I know he is seeing other people. Am I being unreasonable?
So...should I stay with him until he leaves, break up with him now, or stay together while dating other people?
| Sun, 04-25-2004 - 1:19pm |
