Relationship Dilema
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Relationship Dilema
| Wed, 11-24-2004 - 11:22am |
I am in my late 20's and I am dating a guy in his mid 40's. We have been together for 14 months. We have broken up with each other 3 times. The first time was because he was instant messaging men and women in a sexual manner and had pornography on his computer. He admitted that he struggles with a sex addiction. The second time we broke up was because he thought the Lord wanted him to remarry his ex-wife(wife #3). They divorced because he had an affair and wanted to run wild. The wife did not want to divorce, she forgave him for the affair. He went and sought out spiritual guidance and the minister told him not to remarry her. We have broken up again because he feels guilty because of the affair. He is going to visit her this Friday and will return on Saturday (they live in different states). My question is if he does not decide to remarry his ex-wife should I stay in a relationship with him if he decides he wants to try and work things out with me or should I leave the relationship?

rose1777...
Are you really serious??? Why would you want to waste your time with a man who spends his time surfing the net (for sexual possibilities), has had an affair, and isn't completely over his 3rd wife???
Don't you have any more respect for yourself than to accept the behavior of a man who obviously has NO RESPECT FOR YOU???
Pianoguy