Roll in the Hay or Another Date
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| Thu, 03-29-2007 - 9:19pm |
I went out with this guy on a date. (The same guy I had talked about before) We had an amazing time and then ended up sleeping together. Before I left, I just told him that I was not one of those girls that like got obsessive if the guy did not call after becoming intimate and that if he wasn't interested I understood. He said he appreciated the fact that I made it comfortable for him but that wouldn't be necessary because he was very much interested in really wanted to see me again. That was yesterday. Previous to this last date I had invited him to an event this saturday (casual) and he said he was very much interested and I said I would get back with him on more information. I forgot to ask him about it when we were together, because again yesterday, as my mind was on other things :) About 3-4 hours later I did remember so I called and left a message (unfortunately it was fast because I was getting on the freeway lol so I hope he understood it). I was curious to know if you thought he was still interested, because I feel that since I already called, I shouldn't call again?
QUESTION: Do you think he's still interested or do I just have to chalk it up to a good roll in the hay? :)

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Just checking to see if you had heard from him yet?
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Right, that is how I felt too, that it would be best to wait to date as things wind down and I don't feel under attack all the time. Let's face it, what would I be able to give emotionally right now, because I am spent.
There are men who would definitely feed off of the drama, and then there are those who truely care. What are the odds that I would attract a man who falls into the "truely cares" category? As a sales trainer once said to us, "Slim to none, and Slim's already left town."
Not beating myself up, mindyou, just looking at the scarce pickings out there these days.
Hugs back,
Linda
Hi!
Sorry I've been having terrible access. First and foremost I want to say THANKS! for everyone that has posted and offered advice. I truly truly appreciate it! I actually talked to him yesterday. I actually spoke to him twice. Once face-to-face, telling him that I'm a blunt person and I apprecaite bluntness etc. So, this what occurred:
#1. I don't do booty calls. We can either date casually (squeezes- where you actually have to like the person and what not) or we can be friends with benefits(just tolerate each other enough for sex). I gave him a choice and he choose squeezes
#2. I need phone calls every 3 days. It can be more, but not less. We both reserve the right to be mad at each other and say something when it's not done
#3. We have to be honest with each other.
He said he felt those were more than easy to accomdate and I agree. He kissed me and walked me to my car. That was yesterday, and he told me he's busy working this week so I'll probably stop by Monday just to show my face.
I also actually wanted to go on a double date with my friend and her bf but I was thinking I should wait and see if we're still dating in a month and then ask his opinion first. I also need to figure out if he and my friend's bf have anything in common. lol.
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