Roommate disaster

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Registered: 12-21-2004
Roommate disaster
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Tue, 12-21-2004 - 7:12pm
About 4 months ago I moved into a house with a girl and her girlfriend. They have been together for a little over 2 yrs. The relationship they have is terrible. Physical and emotional abuse on both ends. Dee and I started to spend a lot of time together and eventually began becoming intimate. Well last week Dee and her girlfriend Maria had a big blow up fight. Dee ended up telling Maria that she had been seeing me for the last few months and that we have slept together as well. Maria called me and I denied everything because of fear of her hurting me physically. Well Dee called crying to me saying she did not know what to do because she has tried to break up with Maria on numerous times but she never moves out or stays gone. So she felt the only way Maria would finally leave is if she knew about us. I did't know what to do so I slept on it. The next morning i decided to call Maria and tell her the truth about Dee and I. Well the 3 of us argued about it all day, and i ended up moving out. Maria and Dee continued to fight and then finally Maria decided to stay with Dee and try to work things out. Dee told her she loves her and does not want to be with me. I am so confused about the whole mess. Maria called me and said if I try to make any contact with either one of them that they will get a restraining order against me. Does Dee really want me out of her life or does she have feelings for me? I need help.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 12-22-2004 - 10:30pm
You got caught in the middle of this couple's lives. Be glad that you're out of that drama. Remember, you said they were both yelling and hitting each other...it's just a matter of time before you're receiving the same treatment if you stick around.