Saying Thank you to an old girlfriend
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| Sun, 02-25-2007 - 6:44pm |
About two years ago I ended a relationship with a women I was truely in love with. We were together for nearly two and a half years.
I met this women at the place I worked. Being new in the industry we were in, this women took me under her wing, taught me everything she knew, and as a result I have become very succesful. If it wouldn't have been for her, I wouldn't be where I am today.
What I've been trying to figure out is how I can say thank you. What I'd really like to do is just have a cup of coffee at Starbucks, look her in the eyes, and say thank you for everything she did for me. That's it. If we were to become friends that would be great, but it's not my intention. I also have no interest in resurrecting our relationship, I've been there and done that.
I would send her an email but that is too impersonal. I have sent her maybe four emails over the past two years to try and bury the hatchet and not one has been returned. I would call her but am afraid too. I would mail her a card, or send her flowers, but what I would really like to do is tell her face to face how much I appreciate what she did.
I don't have any other intention other than to say thanks. That's honestly it, but I would like to do it face to face.
By the way, obviously I still have feelings and do care about this women but am also reasonable enough to know that a relationship between us is not a possibility.
Any thoughts on how to make this happen?
Edited 2/28/2007 5:52 pm ET by l81morex
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