SECRETLY ENGAGED
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SECRETLY ENGAGED
| Tue, 03-20-2007 - 3:45pm |
I have been friends with this guy for about a year. We are only friends, we tried the friends with benefits thing, but that didn't work. We aren't compatible. So we went back to just being friends. Anyway, he will go out with me and a girlfriend of mine to the movies, bowling, etc. Recently I found out that he was engaged from one of his family members. He told them not to tell me, but they did anyway. His reasoning for this was because he didn't want to loose any of his "girlfriends." I'm not sure what he meant by girlfriends. So, I had my friend confront him on this because I was too furious to do it. He neither denied nor confirmed it, but was more concerned with where the information came from. I don't understand him, because we don't have that type of relationship why he couldn't just come out and say he was engaged!? Why keep something like that a secret!? Shouldn't he proud of the person he's engaged to!? What's up with him??? He still tried to call me a few times after I found out but I have nothing else to say. I just would like to understand his logic...if that's possible.

You are awfully upset over something minor if you are only "friends". So what if he's engaged secretly? If you were a true friend you would talk to him and NOT punish him like you are.
I say you like a bit more than you are admitting to.
Cindy