seriouse pls read..(suggestions plzz)
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seriouse pls read..(suggestions plzz)
| Thu, 07-29-2004 - 2:28pm |
hi,
well i've been dating this gurl for quite some months now. things seemed to be going on fine.. infact i could almost say she was running crazy for me. well i've been away for a while know (3 months) but before i left she started behaving somehow. she a down to earth person so i guess she will tell me if there is something wrong. we started arguing alot (usually over the phone ut we act cool, like nothing happened when we see our selves).
the thing is i think i started acting like a wussy (as in i complained too much). she says i only complain cause i dont trust her... but the thing is, she is just a little bit care free (she feels so used to me that she does not really do so much things to make me know she still likes me) not like she acts bad or anything.. she is not just as mushy as i thought she would act.
well the thing is i've been calling her or she calls me once a week after i left for summer (we argue a couple of times and sometimes there is really not much she wants to say) this makes me feel like i'm boring so i want to drop the phone and then she says (why are u droping dont u wanna talk to me). really looks like she is stressed by work and other things lately (but she wont really talk... but she calls).... well i hav'nt spoken to her for the past 2 weeks (trying to be little bit scares mabe that will help). she will be taking a break before school starts (in 3 weeks). thats when we will get to see again)
1. what do u think i should do till then (should i wait for her to call or still remain scarce) my phone is not on.. so i guess she would under stand if she calls my friends phone and i'm not available ( that how we've been communicating).
2. when i get back what are the kind of things i should do... to make are loosing up or get attracted again (incase she already lost it cause i complained too much)
thanks
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| Thu, 07-29-2004 - 6:00pm |
I guess I am a litle confused but it sounds like you two need to really communicate. Let her know you feel and if she can't be straight up with you maybe you should let it go. Are you still really into her or are you just like whatever?
