Sex with ex- have i blown it?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2004
Sex with ex- have i blown it?
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Wed, 12-15-2004 - 4:27am

Hi ya peeps!

i wrote in about a couple of weeks a ago about me breaking up with my ex i had been with a couple of months, i was devastated as i am only 16 and he is 22 and i thought the world of him! EVEN though he finished wit me to get bk with his ex i was desperate to speak to him. so after a couple of weeks of blanking him i decided to text him and asked of we could still be friends, he texted bk and we was speaking all day and he started saying how much he had missed me. i was getting all excited and things were getting a bit dirty ova text messages and we had arramged to meet in couple of weeks, i couldnt belive me luck! however that same night, i was due to go out for my works christmas do and he turned up out the blue and told me to go outside to talk to him in his car! we chatted for a hours and ended up sleeping together, he told me he wasnt sure what he wanted and he would text me the weekend! well its been nearly a week and he has blanked all my text messages, he finally text bk saying can we be mates, i aint igoring you, i havent had my fone on me! which i knew was a complete lie! i text him bk n since then he has blanked me! NOw i feel worse and back to square 1 coz i really did get my hopes up! why is he doing this? do u think i have blown it coz i kept texting him making myself look silly? or am i victim of being used and abused for sex!

WOT SHALL I DO now, shall ignore him, not text him anymore?

Please help thanks xx

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Wed, 12-15-2004 - 7:11am
Hi

It's not that the sex didn't necessrily feel meaningful to him but sex doesn't mean the same to a boy as a girl. What do you was about connecectness and love everlasting was to him a hot, sweet moment.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2004
Wed, 12-15-2004 - 11:30am
That's what you should have done in the first place...