Sex problem

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Registered: 09-27-2006
Sex problem
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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 10:14pm
I have been seeing this guy and the last two times when I have given him a bj,he gets really hard then looses his erection when he is close to having a orgasm.The last time he did not even have a orgasm.He has no problem getting erect but,he gets almost there and looses it and blames me and says I did something, I know that it is not my fault and he did apoligize when it happend the first time.I want some advice on what I could maybe do to help keep him erect and stay that way.Cause I have tried to talk to him about it and he wont talk.Is there maybe a trick or some way of giving head that would help keep him hard longer?
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Registered: 11-21-2003
In reply to: lorrie66012
Thu, 09-28-2006 - 8:52pm
This guy is very unconsiderate with your feelings, to say the least. You're giving him a BJ and he blames his not achieving an orgams on you. The fact that he can't cum is not your fault. Maybe he's insecure about cumming in your mouth and that's why he's not sustaining the erection. Why not have him finish himself off instead of having you do all the job. Can he sustain an erection diuring intercouse? If not, maybe he has some kind of sexual dysfucntion.
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Registered: 01-28-2004
In reply to: lorrie66012
Sat, 09-30-2006 - 9:05am

Hi Lorrie -

While this is a problem with a guy you are dating, this problem seems better suited to one of our "sex" topic boards.

Try asking your question on our Oral Sex board or if you'd like the view of an expert, check out Ask Laura Corn.

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