She called me a slut

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
She called me a slut
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Sun, 08-22-2004 - 6:37pm
So i went out clubbing with some friends saturday night. I danced with 4 different women the whole nite. I had a blast and 3 of them kept coming up to me to dance some more. The other one (who i really wanted) kept looking at me and would'nt approach me anymore after just 1 dance! I went up to her, and she called me a slut!

WTF is that all about. Just because i was dancing with other women, does not make me a slut

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2003
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 6:54pm
Fab, how old are you? I'm sure you've mentioned it here before, but I can't remember.

Also, how old are these women you're meeting?

Just curious.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 10:59pm
Im 26 and the women im meeting are between 21-30

Why u ask?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2003
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 11:26pm
Just all seems like silly behaviour - like these girls may be fine to look at and maybe have a conversation with, but have no real substance. Something that you do attracts women (you seem surrounded by them), yet you seem to cause them upset quite unwittingly.

I think you might need to look at doing something else to find girls - some sort of sporting club or something where you can mix with people who are being 'real'. A club environment is not real - it's all about alcohol and looks and competition.

You'll have better luck down the beach with a pair of rollerblades and a dog. ;-)

By the way, what I've said is not an indictment on you, just my observations from your posts.

Eve

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Mon, 08-23-2004 - 1:24pm
It's simple, she wanted you all for herself, and you had the audacity to dance with other girls. If you had really wanted her, you should have put in more effort just to get talking and dancing with her.

Women are strange sometimes, but I don't think she had the right to call names like that. She was hurt, but didn't work well with that. I think it's best to move on from the immature ones like that.

And remember, when you ARE interested in a girl, put in a little more effort with her.

Good luck

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