She has changed! Distant! Wont talk much
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| Sat, 08-14-2004 - 5:01pm |
The night is about to end and its 2am and im exhuasted. So i tell her im going to get a hotel since i cant drive home. She insist i stay at her place on her sofa. So i did, and we are up till 4am talking. Im laying on the sofa, and she keeps moving around laying on the floor in front of me tossing her hair etc.., like she's trying to seduce me or something. She kinda gets closer and sits on the table in front of me, then on the couch arm. 4 comes around and she says "ok, im going to bed". We had great time talking. The following day, she is leaving with her friend, and she's trying to get me up so they can go. We said our bye's
Last week, she became distant with me. She wont talk as much as she used to. What did i do wrong? I think she wanted me to have sex with her that night? I DID NOT in any way try and lead her on. I was being friendly. She was more aggressive. Im not interested in her as a gf.....but a friend. I dont know what to think now
She's just like the rest of them. I was tired, so i didnt want to drive back home. I didnt have any intentions of sleeping with her, because if i did, i would of went for it since all the signs were there.
WTF?

I think the biggest problem you have is that your female friends, for whatever reason, don't get the picture that you are not interested in them. For some reason they are feeling that they A)have a shot with you or B)can seduce you. You may need to re-evaluate how you act around those women that YOU consider JUST FRIENDS.
I'm not really sure how you would change that image, but I do suggest that you try. These girls are acting like they're hurt and rejected. Just because you go and talk to other women doesn't send the message that you are just friends to a girl. You need to tell any female friend you have that you are not looking at the moment. If you tell them that you are just dating, then they will try and put themselves into the dating section of your life. I know from our previous conversations that you seem like an ideal catch, good looking, good morals and a good career, own place, etc..
Remember, at 22 a girl is looking for fun, but at 28 that same girl may be ready for a serious committment. You and the member named "Fabulouz" should talk- he's trying to stay OUT of the friendship zone with women, and you're trying to stay IN the friendship zone with women- LOL!
Honestly though, I hope that things work out.