She refused to give her number...HELP!

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Registered: 09-21-2013
She refused to give her number...HELP!
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Sat, 09-21-2013 - 12:15am

This particular girl n me didn't use to have much conversation but since the last few weeks, I've decided to attract her!! To make GF! We are of the same class n she's not flirty type but I am... I flirt with other girls very very much.........To make her want me more, I don't make her feel special as I've just starting building rappot....I touch her now n then in her butt area n all n she reacts positively( else I wouldn't have done that)!! She n her fren keep on talking to me n she sometimes gives me a romantic view!! She has shared her secrets with me.... WE have chat on FB!! sometimes, she gives a kiss on FB!! Last time, she n me together solved a very big problem bothering me!!! She likes all the updates I make on Facebook.....But when I asked her her number, she refused to give it to me!!! But one of my classmates, who was her good fren, had been given her number by her!! I just wanted to see her reaction n had thus asked her number but she didn't give it to me!! ANY PARTICULAR REASON? CAN THIS HAPPEN EVEN IF A GIRL HAS A CRUSH ON U OR IS ATTRACTED TO U?

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 09-21-2013 - 9:54am

Maybe she thinks that you're a player because you are always flirting with other girls.  That does not, in fact, usually make a girl want you more.  It makes her not trust you.  If you want to make someone your girlfriend, you have to make her feel like she is the only girl you are interested in.