She says to me "i cant read you"??
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She says to me "i cant read you"??
| Fri, 07-30-2004 - 3:12am |
I can't read you" "I don't know what to make of you"
The woman I'm currently seeing said this to me last week, and normally I would blow something like this off.
Unfortunately, I heard the exact same thing from the last woman I was with, so I'm getting paranoid...
What the heck does "I can't read you" "I don't know what to make of you" mean?
She jokes around that I'm a player, which really is 180 degrees from what I really am.
Is she just unsure of my intentions?

It seems your actions are telling her you're not all that serious about her.
Under what circumstances did she say that? Was it something specific you said or did?
Try being straight with her about what you're thinking and feeling; I bet that will go a long way towards alleviating the problem. If you find that you just *can't*, then counseling might be a good idea.
Sheri
It oughta scare you - it basically means that she wants to by association "be you" and live vicariously through you and to the extent that she "melds" to you - she expects you to meld/conform/adhere to her so that her needs are met.
Why "read people"? If you're secure - you "communicate" with people!
I know - I was her.
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
Well hey, atleast we got that mystery thing going, which drives women up the wall because they cant figure us out. They then try whatever possible to get to know you more. Make them work for it, aslong as it's worth digging for.
My biggest problem, is all my girl/friends want a relationship with me. They will stop all contact with me, because i wont cross that line. They are my friends and they wont accept it. I have to re-initiate the contact with them, be it, weeks, sometimes months.
Then they get upset at me, and accuse me of ignoring them?
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com