She was rude, and I said nothing...
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She was rude, and I said nothing...
| Tue, 10-19-2004 - 1:49pm |
So I met this great guy, Caleb, and we've been friends for a little over a month. We are very attacted to each other, but scared to date more since I'm moving to go to school in a nearby city in a few months. It's only a few hours away and I know we can work it out, but that's the least of my worries. One of his best friends has been rude to me and revealed to him that she has been having feelings for him for a while... before I came in the picture. He assured her and me that he has no feelings for her. Then he tells me he definitly has feelings for me but it's too soon and we should be friends for a while. BUT,how should I act around her? She's always around, and I hate it when she she's near him because I know she likes him. Since we're not "together" officially, I have no right to be mad. Also, they both play it off as if they're "just friends." I know better and I hate the way she treats me because of course she's a little jealous. Do I confront her and make things more weird or play it off like it doesn't bug me??
TW
TW

It's up to Caleb to set appropriate boundaries and treat her strictly as a platonic friend. If he doesn't, that is an issue that will have to be resolved with him if you take things to the next level.
Sheri