Should he have bought me something TOO?
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Should he have bought me something TOO?
| Tue, 12-07-2004 - 5:51pm |
I have been going out with my bf for about 3.5 month till now. He went to a business trip to overseas once before. It was not long - only about several days. He didn't buy me anything but he bought some little things for himself like some good alcohole. I didn't say anything coz I thought it was only a short trip & he didn't have time. About one week ago, he went to overseas again for one week. I bought him a cuflink before he went. He did say that he didn't have time to buy me present when he just saw after he came back. I said it was ok. But, I saw two duty free bags when he was unpacking. One was the alcohole he bought for himself. He didn't open the other bag. I checked the bag & it was day & night cream. I didn't say anything at that time. I am not worried that he is seeing anyone else. I think he is quite trustworth. I guess he might buy that for his mum or whoeve. It doesn't matter. I am just thinking if he should have bought me something TOO. (Oh, he did. - a chocolate!)If he doesn't have time to buy me present, how come he can buy things for others & himself? I am questioning how important I am in his heart? I want to talk about this with him. What do you think? It is not about the prsent or money. It is about what he thinks about me? His b'day is coming. I am going to celebrate him a special happy b'day. After that, I am going to talk about it? Any advice is very much appreciated! I put this discussion in general discussion by mistake. Sorry.

you worried about him buying a day and night cream?? LOL I'm sorry but that does not sound like a romantic gift in the least. I think it could have either been for his mom or somebody maybe sister or friend asked him to buy it for them.
I would defintely prefer the chocolate than that :) I mean what did you expect him to buy you? Perfume? Does he know your tastes? You have been dating for a little while maybe he just didn't know what to get you, and chocolate well almost EVERYBODY enjoys that ;)
If you measure a man's interest in you based on the presents he buys you when out of town - then you may have a superficial view of relationships.