Should I be the frist to say I love you?
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Should I be the frist to say I love you?
| Mon, 10-11-2004 - 12:14pm |
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now, and he has never said the words I love you. He has only signed love and his name in the christmas card that he gave me. I am pretty sure that he does love me but is afraid that I wont say the words back...maybe. He has told me that he likes me a lot and that he is not going to say anything more until I do. And he told me this after our fourth month of dating and i have heard no more.(I took this to mean that he is waiting on me to say the L-word)
Our one year anniversary came and he didnt buy a card or anything to celebrate and he didnt even say happy anniversary. We went to an upscale fast food restaurant for a quick bite. And that was it. It seemed like he only did that because I kept mentioning that we needed to do something to celebrate. I even kept hinting that we should go back to the restaurant where we had our first date-but we didnt even do that.I gave him a card and gift and i signed the words love and my name (which i do in other cards that i give him also)
He is a great guy and he is always doing things for me and i shouldnt complain but should i be the first to say the words i love you or should i take his actions to mean that he's not really at the same point in our relationship that i am?
Our one year anniversary came and he didnt buy a card or anything to celebrate and he didnt even say happy anniversary. We went to an upscale fast food restaurant for a quick bite. And that was it. It seemed like he only did that because I kept mentioning that we needed to do something to celebrate. I even kept hinting that we should go back to the restaurant where we had our first date-but we didnt even do that.I gave him a card and gift and i signed the words love and my name (which i do in other cards that i give him also)
He is a great guy and he is always doing things for me and i shouldnt complain but should i be the first to say the words i love you or should i take his actions to mean that he's not really at the same point in our relationship that i am?
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| Thu, 10-14-2004 - 2:43pm |
Hello confused, welcome to the board!
