Should I be mad?
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Should I be mad?
| Fri, 09-17-2004 - 1:02pm |
Help! I am in the best relationship I have EVER had and we are totally in love. However, this is a long distance relationship. Both of us are in school and only see each other about once or twice a month. My problem is he has friends that are girls that come over and stay at his apartment (on the couch) and he thinks I'm overreacting by getting upset. Should I be upset? All of these girls know that I am his girlfriend and he talks to me while they are there. I just can't help to be scared that something might happen and he will cheat on me, even though he has never given me any reason to think this.

Good luck
You certainly have the right to feel whatever you want about the situation, but I wouldn't automatically assume he's cheating.
If you don't like it, I'd have a conversation with him about it the next time you see him and are at his place, not over the phone and definitely not playing "guess if I am at home".
If you have mentioned to him that you feel uncomfortable with the situation and he cannot respect that and tone it down, then he's going to continue disrespecting you.
How does he react when you hang out with the boys?
Alison