Should I Call?

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Registered: 03-24-2006
Should I Call?
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Wed, 03-29-2006 - 8:37pm
Someone recently told me he was no longer going to pursue me. He called Monday night, but I missed the call. In his message he said he was thinking of me and called to say hello and see how I was doing and that he would call again soon. Am I supposed to call him back or leave that up to him since he was the one to break things off and he said he'd call again? Thanks for your help.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: lizbeth937
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 6:59am

I think a bit more history may help. Why did you guys break-up and what do you want out of re-connecting?


Kerry

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Registered: 03-28-2003
In reply to: lizbeth937
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 7:39am
I agree with Kerry. What was his reason for no longer pursuing you? That figures into the situation in an important way. Iri
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Registered: 03-24-2006
In reply to: lizbeth937
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 8:54am
If you read "Is he after what I think he is?" under the dating dillemas, that will tell you why, which I guess those answers should have answered this question for me (don't call), but I want other opinions. It helps to have other opinions sometimes.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: lizbeth937
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 12:13pm
this should be his call literally - and be wary of giving too much time or energy to someonewho has told you he's not going to pursue you!
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