should i call the guy??

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Registered: 09-19-2006
should i call the guy??
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Tue, 09-19-2006 - 1:14am

hey,

hope ye can help me with a problem.
Theres a guy i really like and weve been on a couple of 'dates' - dont know if u can call em dates tho, cos his friends were there too. anyway he kept being real affectionate in front of his friends and later when we were alone, and he was saying he really likes me and wants me to himself etc etc.
But both times after dates he never calls, last time i called him but im not sure if i should this time. We fooled around after the last date - didnt have sex but pretty much everything and i kinda regret doin all that, cos now i think maybe he thinks im easy or something. He was nice the next morning and kissed me by but its a few days later and he hasnt called. Im so confused, should i call him - im worried after the other nite it'll make me seem desperate or something if i call him 1st??

Thanks, appreciate any help

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 09-19-2006 - 2:53am

sp2006...

PG is puzzled on this one.

Why in the world would YOU want to CALL HIM if his only desire is to "fool around with you" and then ignore you afterwards?

Are you THAT DESPERATE for a boyfriend?

I'll bet you can do a lot better?

Pianoguy

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Tue, 09-19-2006 - 8:07am
I agree with Pianoguy. This man tells you words you want to hear but doesn't follow through with phone calls and proper dates. It is time to move on.
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Registered: 01-03-2005
Tue, 09-19-2006 - 6:36pm
If you want to call him you should, but if he's not calling you then there might be a reason (i.e. he doesn't want a relationship with you). Calling him will stop you from thinking about him all the time, and you can ask (in a very nonshalant way) if he's been busy lately. Really, what's the worst that can happen from calling? But dont call more than once....
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Fri, 09-22-2006 - 5:24pm
I definitely dont think you should call him, the next move if any, is up to him
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