Should I call him?

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Registered: 09-30-2003
Should I call him?
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Sun, 05-02-2004 - 10:19pm
To sum up briefly (because I've posted on this before), I'm in a long-distance relationship and have not heard from my SO since he phoned me last Monday. On Friday I tried to call him but found out from his roommate that he had left Boston, where he was doing an elective, and gone to Michigan, which is where he's doing another elective for three weeks. He is staying with his family in Michigan.

Would it be weird if I got his family's number from directory assistance and phoned him??? Or would this be likely to make him feel like I'm smothering him?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 6:47am
xanthium...

Please repeat the following phrase before you look up his family's phone number:

"AS MUCH AS I LIKE, LOVE, AND RESPECT THIS MAN...I WILL NOT STALK HIM! WHEN AND IF HE'S READY TO CALL ME...I'LL BE HAPPY TO TALK WITH HIM! MEANWHILE...I HAVE A LIFE OF MY OWN TO LIVE!"

Refer to this phrase before you do something that could mess up a good friendship (or the possibility of something more)....please!!!!

Pianoguy

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Registered: 03-16-2004
Thu, 05-06-2004 - 12:54pm
Pianoguy, I like that answer. I'm going to add that motto to my life experiences; if you don't mind. Have a great weekend.