Should I call him??

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Registered: 04-11-2004
Should I call him??
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Mon, 04-12-2004 - 8:51pm
The other day,I met this guy who lives only two blocks away from my apart at a club. He called me next day evening and we walked his dog together. We went dog walk two days after again, and he went to work after that.But he called me few hours later because he was canceled his work, he said "If you want, come to my home and let's see video." So I went to his home and had a good time with him. (no kiss, no flirting)

I stayed there for 3 hours,and he walked me to my home,then he said "Let's go to that bar

(there is a weird bar in our neighborhood and we talked about that at this night)if it will snow tomorrow(because his work will be canceled), if not tomorrow, let's go on the day after tomorrow.I was planning to go to a party with my friend next day, so I said "If I don't go party and you don't have work, let's go. Anyway, we should contact each other tomorrow.". He said "OK, I'll call you tomorrow." .

Next day, I called him and and left a message "I won't go the party tonight,so give me a call.",but he didn't call me back. After a week, I called him again, then he picked up and said "I've been losing my phone since the next day you came to my home, and someone who picked it up brought me just this afternoon!! I'll go home late today, so we can hang out tomorrow. Call me tomorrow afternoon. I'll call you, too."

but he didn't call me next day. I called him twice, but he didn't answer.

Two weeks passed, but still he doesn't call.

I know he's busy and tired(he works daytime regularly and also has extra job at night four times a week),but it seems like he's not interested in me anymore.

Should I call him again??


P.S. I'm sorry about my English is not very good....

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 12:09am
no, you should not call this man again. he knows where you are and he knows your number. you've already let him know that you like him and that's enough. if you keep calling him, you're acting desperate.