Should I call him to go out now?
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Should I call him to go out now?
| Sat, 08-07-2004 - 6:15am |
Hi you all!
I would like your opinion on this one.
I'm dating a guy I met online. We met in the past 2 weeks for 2 times. One the previous week on Thursday, and also yesterday. It went really really well. He also said he liked me a lot. Thing is, last weekend he wanted to see me, but I said no because I was off town. But this weekend I'm not. He did not say anything for us to meet this weekend, but I would like it a lot. I was thinking in asking him to go tomorrow afternoon eat an icecream or something.
Am I doing right in doing it? It will be our third date, should I wait for him to call or it's ok for me to do it? I don't think is anything wrong in beeing the woman who calls the man to go out, but is too early to do that? What do you think?

Sheri
What's going on here?
Edited 8/8/2004 10:00 am ET ET by maitema
Edited 8/8/2004 10:04 am ET ET by maitema
on the other hand, maybe he has something planned out for this weekend? or maybe he's not very serious about you...
I would definitely call him. guys get shy/scared too, you know. especially when they risk & ask you out & you say "no" without offering an alternative.
so I see no harm in you taking the step. the worst thing that can happen is if he says no. but then- you won't have to speculate anymore...
I guess I just think that sitting & wishing he would ask you, is obviously not working out very well...
I'd back off from talking with him online...maybe the next time you chat, you could keep it short and sign off with something like, "I'd really enjoy getting together again...please give me a call when you're free to do so. Talk to you later" And then don't be available by IM. I think IM makes things too easy and casual for guys...make him pick up the phone and call you! If he's really interested, that would be no big deal to do so.
Sheri