Should I continue with this guy or not

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Registered: 05-23-2004
Should I continue with this guy or not
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Sun, 05-23-2004 - 10:27am
I've been with Jimmy for a year and a half from the beginning of our relationship he started putting profiles in dating sites on the web. Well either he underestimates my intelligence or he doesn't care if caught. He wanted to expand to threesomes, two girls one guy, and I absolutely refused. I wanted very much to please him in the bedroom and out and if he'd really pushed I'd have probably done it and then hated him for it. Well to make a long story short he hardly touches the computer anymore. Then I caught him using his cell phone, I had hooked up for him ,to call date lines. He swears on his daughters life that he NEVER talked to anyone. We, well all in my name, close on a house in 1 week. I'm terrified that he'll get tired of getting caught and take min and my childrens home away or make it a living hell because he can't out smart me and "play the field" HELP I'M SCARED TO DEATH AND VERY CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 05-20-2004
Sun, 05-23-2004 - 2:30pm
As for as threesome, Do not ever lower yourself to satisfy no one. But it sounds to me like he wants his cake and eat it to. And things should not be that way. If he really loves you he needs to leave those dating sites alone and dating lines alone. All in all he is not respecting u at all.

JUST A SUGGESTION

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Registered: 05-23-2004
Sun, 05-23-2004 - 3:19pm
Dear jbabygirl,

Thanks for your honesty. It's like a breath of fresh air I don't get that here. Thanks Again. You keep your head up too

kimik8
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Registered: 10-12-2003
Sun, 05-23-2004 - 5:49pm
Thanks for letting me know... and I'm glad I left room to be wrong! hehe

Good luck with the days ahead and please let us know how it goes.

 

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