Should i cut all ties??
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Should i cut all ties??
| Wed, 01-04-2006 - 12:30pm |
I've known this guy since last March. We went out 7 or 8 times, on dates, kissing and touching but no sex. I told him i liked him and wanted more (relationship) and he never called me again. He actually told me that he would be starting his own business, and would have no time for a relationship. Last October we started talking again, met at a club, and the chemistry was obviously still there for both of us, and we planned to get together again. We went out 3 weeks ago, and one thing led to another and we slept together. We talked on the phone after, and went to a movie last week. Then New Year's eve he spent it with his friends and me with mine. He said we would get together this week. We talked on line two days ago and no mention of meeting. I noticed that he plans alot of stuff to do with his buddies...I really don't understand cause at his age, i was thinking maybe he would want to have a girlfriend or something, he's 33. I don't know what to do, i do want more, again, a relationship, but i don't know where it's going from here. Should i confront him about this? Why is he so afraid of commitment? Or should i just cut all ties??
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| Wed, 01-04-2006 - 12:41pm |
The 33 year old "man" wants to be single. He wants the freedom to hang out with his buddies, date as many chicks as he wants and not be committed to anyone. If you confront him about this, he may go AWOL again. I would just cut ties with him, since you are looking for a relationship and he is not. Most people who fear commitment, are only people who love their freedom and enjoy being single.

