Should I email him??
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| Mon, 06-21-2004 - 5:20pm |
(in case you read Mr. Answer Man too, I posted the same thing there but I am looking for more opinions....)
I was involved with a guy (Joe) over three years ago and while we had chemistry, things just didnt work out. (we were in college and well, its complicated).
Well I got sick of things not working out and started dating someone else (who happened to play basketball with Joe) and as great as things were with guy2 (Steve), Joe was hard to get over.
And maybe Joe thought there was something unfinished there as well because he emailed me out of the blue that first summer Steve and I were dating and then a couple more times throughout the year - holidays etc.
But again, nothing happened - I was dating Steve and Joe lived 3,000 miles away.
So its three years later and Steve and I have broken up. And since I'm single again, I'm wondering what happened to Joe. I know he is in grad school but I think he might be home for the summer and I happen to live relatively close to where he is from....
But the kicker is that Steve and I are still friends, and he told me he is planning to have a party at our old apartment over July 4th weekend because the basketball guys are having a reunion. I was friends with some of them and I'm planning on attending the party. And I am really hoping to see Joe there.
So should I email him now and say hello and see if he is coming to the party? Or I could just email to say hello...
Either way, it would be out of the blue - we haven't spoken in over 2 years. But we have mutual friends and i do have him email address....
Or I could do nothing and wait to see if he comes to the party.
What should I do? I am not really expecting much to come from it anyways - I dont think we will ever really date, but there is unfinished business there that I feel needs to be worked through... I just dont want to freak him out by randomly emailing him...
What do you think? Thanks....

good luck
Is Joe invited to this event?