should I get a divorce?

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Registered: 09-15-2004
should I get a divorce?
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Wed, 09-15-2004 - 12:44pm
Ok for starters I had just gotten married in June of this year, I have two sons, one son has a good father, but my oldest son has longed for "a father" his whole life. All the men I dated before werent good enough for him even though I was in love with them. I married a man I have known for 4 years, he is great for my oldest son, my son is so happy, but the man I married is my best friend. I care about him as a close friend, but i am not in love with him. I have tried to fall in love with him, but I just dont have those feelings. I am unhappy, but my sons are extremely happy, what should I do??

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Registered: 09-15-2004
Thu, 09-16-2004 - 9:27pm
I think that would be a great idea if we could do that, the seprate but still continue to live together as roommates........I would even pay him rent if it came to that, but I am not sure if he would understand...my husband that is. Really we are already living like roommates, he works so much he is hardly here anyway, we rarely sleep in the bed at the same time, I am normally feeling fine chatting with him and stuff. But it is when it comes time to make love or something.....i feel like he is my brother if that makes any sense? I think it would be easier on my boys, at least until they are in teenage years and understand that my husband and I arent meant to be together.

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