should I give up?

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Registered: 10-03-2007
should I give up?
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Thu, 10-04-2007 - 2:00pm
I met a guy a couple weeks ago (from an online dating site). We had great chemistry in person.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 10-04-2007 - 4:52pm

Someone can be "into" you and like you, but not want to rush into exclusivity so I'm not sure why you're assuming that liking someone and wanting to be exclusive are one and the same--they are not.


However, if you are the type of person who needs to date someone exclusively then this guy is clearly not a good match for you.

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Thu, 10-04-2007 - 4:56pm

This guy said that he is not into anything serious right now so he'll probably contact you sparingly if he is into just something casual but not with any kind of frequency.

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Registered: 10-03-2007
Thu, 10-04-2007 - 5:16pm

snafu2006...omg you make things seem so clear and easy. You are right. I personally hate drama and feel that if i try to discuss anything with him it will just be drama....i have had small previews that he doesn't seem to be one to "discuss" things much.


I never thought of it like that...who cares what he wants if he isn't giving me what I want..... I like it and will remember it! Thanks so much! :-)