Should i go for it?

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Registered: 02-19-2006
Should i go for it?
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Sun, 02-19-2006 - 2:17pm
Alright, I'm 16 years old and my friend is trying to hook me up with her boyfriends bestfriend. I've been talking to him over the phone for the past 5 months but we hae been so busy with sports that we haven't got a chance to meet. He seems like the most amazing guy and hes so much fun to talk to. Not only that but he plays baseball.. Baseball is my life. I absolutely love it so it's a big plus. We keep on planning times to meet but something always comes up that we havet o cancel. We are both attracted to eachother even though we have never met eachother or seen eachother. So should i meet him or just let the whole thing go?
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Sun, 02-19-2006 - 2:24pm

This is a good lesson for you... remember that people make time for the things that are important to them. If he cannot find a half hour in his schedule to just meet, then what sort of time do you think he'll give you if you start dating? Personally, I would let it go and wait for a guy who would give me the attention I deserve.


Also, please please be careful with guys... at your age, many of them will do and say what you want just to have sex with you. I know it's totally off the topic of your post, but as someone who has been there I just feel the need to give you that advice.


Feel free to come back here and post any questions/concerns you may have.


Kerry


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Registered: 02-19-2006
Sun, 02-19-2006 - 2:31pm
Alright.. Thank you for the advice. I may be back
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 02-23-2006 - 2:21pm
What about a double date? Preferably at a baseball game
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