Should i initiate contact?

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Registered: 08-13-2002
Should i initiate contact?
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Tue, 08-01-2006 - 12:07pm
Hi,
i spoke to a guy online that i had talked to before awhile ago. So we sorted reconnected again, and we had nice conversation. At first i was not that interested, just no expectations. I think we really clicked, and he seemed interested, plus we're from the same background etc. The only thing is, we have not met in person. He said he wanted to, but we didn't make any plans. So the last time we spoke online, we exchanged phone numbers and he said he would call me later. He never did. Now it's been 4 days since we both spoke. He still hasn't called or we spoke online. Should i make the first contact, text him or something, or will i seem too eager? Or should i just assume is not interested anymore? Thanks to all that answer.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 08-01-2006 - 1:50pm

I would just move on. Not only is he not showing interest, he's showing you he isn't someone who keeps his word.

If he calls, you can see if he apologizes for not doing what he said he was going to do, and what his excuse is. If it sounds valid, then consider meeting him. But if he doesn't apologize and have a good excuse, I'd ding him.

Sheri