Should i invite my ex at for Christmas

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2005
Should i invite my ex at for Christmas
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Mon, 12-19-2005 - 8:41pm

I broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years and I'm not sure I'm if I should invite him to spend Christmas eve with my family(he did last year). He's not from the area and I feel bad to have him spend the holidays by himself.

Please advise.

thanks.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 12-19-2005 - 9:19pm
If it doesn't feel awkward to anyone and you are comfortable with it, then it would be a nice gesture so that he doesn't have to spend it alone. However, you need make sure he isn't going to think you are thinking about rekindling the relationship...personally, I would invite over any of my ex-boyfriends but I am very close to all of them, so it may be different...
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Mon, 12-19-2005 - 11:52pm

If it feels right, then extend the invitation.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-23-2003
Tue, 12-20-2005 - 11:40am

If you and yuor ex boyfriend are still friends, and there's no hard feelings between you, there's no reason why you shouldn't invite him to spend Christmas with your family.

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