Should I just leave it alone?

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Registered: 05-08-2003
Should I just leave it alone?
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Tue, 03-16-2004 - 2:04pm
Hello!

I met this guy, this great sensitive guy a while ago. We like each other a lot. Our flirting dynamique was the whole teasing each other thing. But apparently he took it seriously and called it "arguing".

I learned lately ( trough his best friend)that he was kinda depressed because he says he likes me a lot but since we argue as friends that it's not worth it to even try having a relationship because he's conviced that it won't work anyways.

I think he's an amazing guy and I would really like to got out with him. I'm conviced that it would work if we tried. Should I talk to him about it or should I just leave him alone?

Thank you!




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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 03-16-2004 - 3:03pm
gaxy....

It's just a suggestion, but how would you feel about double dating with another couple? Or maybe just being part of a group? Set up a movie night, concert date, baseball game or something where there are many people going to the same event...and INVITE THIS GUY!

If he knows that there are a lot of people in the mix...he might not be reluctant about joining in. If he has no interest whatsoever...that's a good indication that he has NO INTEREST IN YOU!

Pianoguy