Should I Pretend I Don't Know???

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Registered: 09-30-2007
Should I Pretend I Don't Know???
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Sun, 11-11-2007 - 8:30pm

I was on a job sight for 2 weekends & one of the store managers gave me his card & was flirting with me.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 11-11-2007 - 8:35pm

It's entirely possible that he's just a flirtatious guy and that it didn't mean he was interested in you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 9:51am

Well he certainly isnt professional is he?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 2:59pm

From what you've said, he didn't ask you out, he just was flirty and gave you his card.

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Registered: 08-16-2005
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 8:01am

Did he ask you out? I don't understand why giving you his card implies anything that deserves a slap?


I give my business card out all the time. That doesn't mean anything at all.


I wouldn't assume just because he flirted a little and gave you his card that he necessarily wanted to date you.

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Deirdre

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Registered: 11-21-2003
Wed, 11-14-2007 - 12:00am
Next time he flirts with you at the store you can mention the fact that his wife may not like him flirting with other women. State that you don't go out with married men who are
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Registered: 01-07-2004
Wed, 11-14-2007 - 10:31am

tell him I don't go out w/ married men?!

this sounds like a plan. be blunt, be honest-if he starts up a conversation with you-you can be polite, but if he starts flirting with you, just tell him "hey, buddy, i dont date married men-i never have, i never will." let it go at that. you dont have to be mean or rude or anything-just tell him the truth. take care!
joanne
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Registered: 10-17-2002
Wed, 11-14-2007 - 1:51pm

I disagree.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2007
Wed, 11-14-2007 - 7:15pm
Thanks for your imput...something to think about, but he did invite me out for coffee after I got done w/ my shopping...I doubt if it was to talk about his wife!
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Registered: 09-30-2007
Wed, 11-14-2007 - 7:22pm
Thanks for your response.
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Registered: 11-10-2007
Thu, 11-15-2007 - 10:32am
His intentions do not appear to be honorable. Be careful.

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