Should I say no when I mean yes?
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| Tue, 08-24-2004 - 4:21pm |
Now I have gone on 2 dates with this guy I could potentially be crazy about. The first date was amazing, there was a definate mutual attraction. He was very cool, dressed great, funny and cute with a very good social life. We ended up kissing for hours in the rain and with some major sparks. Granted we were both drinking and at a bar (we kissed outside, no mushy pda) but still there was something. He emailed me the next day and said it was oneof the most unique dates (in a good way) he had ever been on. This was last Thursday. We didn't go out again until Monday and I went to his townhouse to watch football with his roommate. Another great time, he has a cool roommate and we all had fun together. They are both bachelors and had the typical bachelor pad to boot. the roommate ended up going to bed and we "made-out" for at least 2 hours. He invited me upstairs, I accepted but it was very innocent. No clothes were removed and it was purely "make-out". Oh and yes, there was drinking involved but again, the mutual attraction and conversation is amazing.
I am reallly interested in this guy but am afraid of scaring him off with over forwardness. He emailed today, day after 2nd date, and said again it was amazing , he wants to know more about me and to name a time and place. This is where I feel I could be to accessable. I said tomorrow but I don't want to "rush" anything and I want to keep the excitement there. He isn't a guy who has problems finding dates and neither am I but still, I don't want to come off as desparate or anything. I do have a 9 month old baby, he has no children. The reason I said tomorrow is because i just happen to have a sitter. Please help me! I don't want to scare him off. Should I cancel and say I have something else going on????
thanks so much, Carrie


Sheri
I'd say you can't scare him off - by be willing and able to engage in whatever physical activity he wants to engage in without obligation or communication.
Erin
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