Should I settle down?
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Should I settle down?
| Wed, 08-18-2004 - 3:00pm |
Hey,
Alright, I am 20 years old and for the last year or so I have wanted to be in a relationship like all my friends (they are all getting married or already married). Then I realized that I am still young and I have so many plans in my life so I wanted to just have some fun. I have been seeing several guys but nothing has ever gotten serious because I won't let it. But lately I have met this guy who is everything I could ever want in a man, the thing is I want to keep having fun. I have had many roomates who had their boyfriends over to the house all the time and it used to irritate the hell out of me. Now I will be moving in with two of my single friends and I don't want to irritate them by having a boyfriend over all the time. I know I should think of myself, but I have never been that way my whole life, I always think of other people and want them to be comfortable. I really want this relationship to work out, but everything is so different with him. I guess that's why I like him so much, because he is nothing like any of my other boyfriends. I need some advice on what I should do, i am so confused right now.
Alright, I am 20 years old and for the last year or so I have wanted to be in a relationship like all my friends (they are all getting married or already married). Then I realized that I am still young and I have so many plans in my life so I wanted to just have some fun. I have been seeing several guys but nothing has ever gotten serious because I won't let it. But lately I have met this guy who is everything I could ever want in a man, the thing is I want to keep having fun. I have had many roomates who had their boyfriends over to the house all the time and it used to irritate the hell out of me. Now I will be moving in with two of my single friends and I don't want to irritate them by having a boyfriend over all the time. I know I should think of myself, but I have never been that way my whole life, I always think of other people and want them to be comfortable. I really want this relationship to work out, but everything is so different with him. I guess that's why I like him so much, because he is nothing like any of my other boyfriends. I need some advice on what I should do, i am so confused right now.
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| Wed, 08-18-2004 - 3:26pm |
It shouldn't matter if your friends are single and you are not. Being with someone who makes you happy is more important that trying to fit in with other peoples agendas. If they are real friends, they won't be uncomfortable if you have a boyfreind who comes over. Enjoy your man no matter what.
